I
could go to visit my sick neighbor if I don't have to work on Thursday night.
My neighbor could die from pneumonia if her immune system is not strong. My son'
s car could last another five years if he's lucky. The most significant word in
the last three sentences is "if" because the first part of every
sentence depends on another factor. It could happen, but maybe it won't.
Whereas when we use can, something will generally happen or at least the person
has the ability to make it happen.
Parents
used to teach children table manners by differentiating between the words can
and may. A child would say, "Can I go now?" after dessert, and the
parent would retort, "May I go." Because clearly the child can go by
simply getting up and leaving the table. Using may is a way of asking
permission.
Sigrid
Macdonald is the author of three books and two short stories, and is also a
manuscript editor. Find her at http://sigridmacdonald.blogspot.com/.
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